Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. ~ Romans 14:19
Peace is always out there and we must make a conscious effort to move toward it.
You can’t drive someone toward peace, only lead them there. Neither will God push you in peace’s direction, but He will lead you there.
To be lead is to follow. So, if you begin to head toward peace, others will surely follow. And those that do not…they will be in your past.